Communication: The Key to a Successful Relationship

 Even dumb couples communicate. You have no excuse or rather, it's a big shame on you if your relationship scatters because of a communication fault.

Good communication is an important part of any partnership. Business, relationship, etc. 

What is communication and why is it so important in a relationship?

Communication is the transfer of information from one person to another. It can be through written words, speaking, gestures, body language, symbolic expressions, facial expressions, etc.

In relationships, communication is used to express yourself to your partner. What you're experiencing, how you feel, your needs....

Basically, like lubricants in engines, communication gives you and your partner a smooth ride in your relationship.

Importance of Communication in a Relationship

• To build connection

• To solve misunderstanding

• To know each other better

• To build trust

• To build support

No matter how well you know someone, you cannot read their minds. Communication has to be clear to avoid misunderstanding.

Don't draw conclusions from what you see. Because well... You see through your own senses and most times what you see is not all there is.

 Your sense of judgement, experience and perception determine how you view a matter.

If you draw conclusions without asking, you would only be judging from your own view.

Always ask questions when unsure to avoid confusion and unnecessary resentment towards your partner.

Now that you know why communication is essential in your relationship, you should consider how to go about it effectively.

Tips for Effective Communication with Your Partner

Are you having trouble finding ways to effectively communicate in your relationship?

Don't worry.

 Communication is like every other skill- It can be learnt!

Here are tips to help you express how you feel in a positive, productive manner.

1. Choose the right time and environment for a conversation: 

There are some conversations you cannot have with your partner in the morning when she just wakes up. 

Some conversations can be held over lunch, some will kill your partner's appetite.

Learn the right environment for different conversations.

2. Avoid bringing up the past:

 Having already acquired the required tools needed for effective communication, don't get carried away and by bringing up an already settled issue from the past hence, ruining the good rapport you had built up.

3. Remember the good stuff: 

As much as you want to speak your mind and vent, always remember that the purpose of communication is not about the issue, but saving your relationship. 

4. Ask Questions: Asking questions helps you to understand your partner's view in the situation 

5. Give room for feedback: Asides the questions you ask, allow your partner express him/herself. This will help you know how well you were understood.